Give 30 Seconds for Gwendolyn

I get a lot of e-mail each day. Please don’t think I’m bragging, because in no way am I proud of the spam I have to delete from my Inbox continuously. Some of the legitimate e-mail includes PR pitches (some of which also end up as spam), asking me to review a product or post a press release. My favorite e-mails are from blog friends or even complete strangers who took the time to say hi.

And then I get an e-mail like the one below. A complete stranger, asking so little, with so much to gain from our effortless act of signing a petition. How could I not help? Please read Victoria’s e-mail and sign the petition to help promote Spinal Muscular Atrophy awareness and accelerate research to find a cure.

From Victoria:
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Dear Christina,

I recently found your blog via a mother who follows mine. I immediately bookmarked you and am thrilled to now have your website at my fingertips. Although it may seem random, I am writing to you because I feel drawn to your writing voice and I thought perhaps I may find a advocate in you. And, frankly, I am desperate.

I have a beautiful 16-month-old little girl. She is a happy baby with a fighting spirit — and it is a good thing because she has already been through enormous challenges. My daughter, Gwendolyn, has a degenerative and terminal disease. Over the last eight months, I have grown accustomed to feeding tubes and medical machines filling her nursery. I have even come to terms with the knowledge that I will most likely lose my baby before she reaches the age of two…well, some days any way. I am hoping that you will consider helping me raise awareness about her little known but all too common disease and highlight a petition my husband and I started.

My daughter, Gwendolyn, was born perfectly healthy October 2007. Unfortunately, at 9 weeks old she became very ill and was eventually diagnosed with Spinal Muscular Atrophy or SMA, the #1 genetic killer of infants. In fact, 1 in 40 people unknowingly carry the gene responsible for SMA. It is terminal. It is degenerative. It is cruel. Gwendolyn will never walk, never sit up unassisted, and spends most time completely flat where she is most comfortable. Some days I can not pick her up or snuggle her because the movement is too much for her. She may never speak, although we are hopeful. And while she currently has some arm movement, it seems to weaken every day. She needs help to breathe and even to swallow her own saliva. However, her mind is perfectly fine and already she wants so desperately to do all the things that her failing body hinders.

Although, Gwendolyn’s disease currently has no treatment and no cure, the National Institutes of Health (NIH) has described SMA as the disease “closest to treatment” and researchers claim they are just a few years away from finding a cure. And, there is landmark legislation, the SMA Treatment Acceleration Act, currently sitting in Congress that, if passed, would provide researchers the resources needed to make that last crucial step. In addition, SMA research has already benefited the research of other diseases, such as ALS/Lou Gehrig’s, Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, Tay Sachs, and many others. In fact, it is because so much is known about SMA that the national organizations consider it a “model” disease from which so much can be learned and put toward saving countless lives.

Having been initially told that there was nothing we could do but go home and love our baby, it is empowering to know we are so close to changing this outlook…and, perhaps, saving our daughter’s life. Thus, this summer my husband and I joined the battle being waged by the SMA community nationwide and created an online petition – www.PetitionToCureSMA.com – as a grassroots effort to drum up broad national support for the SMA Treatment Acceleration Act. Our petition has received backing from the SMA community – FightSMA and Families of SMA – and to date has over 49,000 signatures from all 50 states and many countries. The petition has also been a useful tool in raising much needed awareness of this infant killer.

We are just one family fighting to end this cruel disease, but with the support of others it is within our reach. So please, as a parent, I am asking you to consider signing the petition: www.PetitionToCureSMA.com (it takes 30 seconds) and helping us promote SMA awareness. With your support, thousands of children can have the future they so deserve.

You can learn more about Gwendolyn on our blog: www.GwendolynStrong.com. Here is a petition promotional video you are welcome to post: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_pL0kMvlcg

Thank you for your time and consideration.

Sincerely,
Victoria — Gwendolyn’s Mommy
www.GwendolynStrong.com

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Here is a bit more about SMA:

  • SMA is #1 genetic killer of children under two.
  • SMA is estimated to occur in nearly 1 out of every 6,000 births.
  • The gene that causes SMA is unknowingly carried by 1 in every 40 people or nearly 7.5 million Americans.
  • The life expectancy for infants with SMA Type 1 is two years.
  • SMA is a degenerative disease that destroys the nerves controlling voluntary muscle movement, including breathing and even swallowing — these children are otherwise perfectly healthy and “normal” — making them trapped in their own failing body.
  • There is currently no cure, but the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (NINDS) have selected SMA as the disease closest to treatment of more than 600 neurological disorders.
  • Researchers estimate that we are as close as only a few years away from finding a treatment and/or cure.


I’m Talking Politics Today & I’m On TV Tomorrow

Come visit PunditMom today, where I’m today’s guest writer for her Mothers of Intention series. I’m discussing how I became an informed voter instead of the girl who voted for the person who had the best sounding name.

Also, you might notice that little SavvyQuiz widget in my right sidebar. If you want to know more about it, or how you can add it to your site and make a little money in the process, read my review of the SavvyQuiz.

And for the locals, check out First at 4 tomorrow and Friday on NBC (at, well, 4pm of course) to see an interview with yours truly! NBC’s Ellie Merritt came by to interview me today about Being Savvy Columbus and blogging in general. You’ll be able to marvel at the speed at which I can talk, and how easily I can trip over my own words. (Note to self: sign up for public speaking lessons.) You’ll also see my messy house and my new reading glasses! I’ll try to capture the video and post it here if I can. (And if you all promise not to make fun of me.)



Final Guest Poster

Hi everyone. Welcome self-professed new blogger James to the blog as my final guest poster. One more exam and I’m done with finals week. I’ll be back with something fun tonight.
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My life is split into two parts. BD and PD. BD being “Before Danny.” Danny is my son, and Monica is my wife. He came into our life two years ago and changed my life in so many ways. Before Danny my life was pretty simple, go to work, spend time with my wife, and get in as much fishing as possible. When he was born, he changed everything! I knew that with his birth I might not be able to fish as much, but what I didn’t know was that this 7 pound, 3 ounce, 19 ½, inch bundle of joy would completely change my work life and my family’s future.

Shortly after welcoming him into the world we were bombarded with requests for news, pictures and videos of Danny. Seeking to quell the mob that demanded to see our new family member we logged onto the Internet and started posting pictures here and there and sending scattered emails that were sometimes filtered out by Spam-screeners. We soon became very frustrated by the need to act as technical support for Danny’s various online profiles and photo sites. Plus, we were constantly worried at how safe these sites really were. So, one of my closest friends and I created our own website for Danny. It was supposed to be just a one-time thing for Danny – next thing you know we were doing it for many other new parents and had built an online network, BabySpot, for new babies.

All of a sudden my simple, but pleasant life that entailed work, my wife and family, and fishing was turned upside down! I now had my own company on my hands and work-life balance became an utter challenge. My wife and I both work full time and now we have two babies on our hands – the love of both our lives, Danny, and our new company. We struggled initially balancing it all, but were blessed that our families have helped out. My mom lives a few minutes from us and so she takes care of Danny for us during the day. And, while I work a lot now, my schedule is more flexible where I can spend time with him in between meetings.

My little mister, Danny, completely changed my life – he definitely made it much more hectic – but he also gave it so much more meaning. My life now is about Danny, my wife and family, my company, and fishing whenever I can sneak it in! I can’t wait till Danny is older so that I can take him fishing.

Although that might be awhile, as my beautiful wife is 7 months pregnant and our little cutie pie, Danny, is giving us a fun time with his terrible two’s! I’m sure each of you out there has your own stories of how hard it is to manage newborns, work, and family. How did you manage? As we expect our 2nd son, my wife and I are really nervous for Danny as he will have to go to daycare for half the day. As new parents we feel like we are starting school again ourselves! Remember those butterflies in your stomach that you probably got when it was your first day of school? YUP those! Did you go through this?

Would love to hear how you balance it all! Let me know by leaving a comment of how you have been able to balance it all. Now, I have to run, Danny wants to play with Thomas the Train!



Haiku Friday: A Guest Haiku

Dishes are piling
Puzzles, trains, and more scattered
The floors are a fright

I’ve had some fresh air
It’s been like summer outside
Time to get cracking

Unmotivated
Perhaps it’s a lack of sleep?
Or of nutrition.

So I’m not cleaning
Guest posting haiku instead
Who needs a clean house?

– Special thanks to McMama for guest haiku’ing for me this week!

To play along for Haiku Friday, follow these steps:

1. Write your own haiku on your blog. You can do one or many, all following a theme or just random. What’s a haiku, you ask? Click here.

2. Sign the Mister Linky below or at Jennifer’s blog with your name and the link to your haiku post (the specific post URL, not your generic blog URL). DON’T sign unless you have a haiku this week. If you need help with this, contact Jennifer or myself.

3. Pick up a Haiku Friday button to display on the post or in your sidebar by clicking the button at the top.

REMEMBER: Do not post your link unless you have a haiku this week! We will delete any links without haiku!



Why You Should Really Watch Your Mouth

Hello there. Sarah reporting for duty, Goon Squad Sarah.

Christina asked if anyone wanted to guest post and of course I jumped at the chance. I met Christina at BlogHer two years ago and I’ve been a fan ever since.

So, as usual when I offer to guest post I have no clue what I am going to write about. Fortunately, something came up.

When you have three year old twins something always comes up.

In this case it came up on the way to the grocery store this morning.

The kids and I have been in Florida for almost a week. We got into the minivan, this morning and the low fuel light was on.

Because I have not yet adjusted to being a mother (when do you think that will be anyway? When they are four? Five? Eighteen?) I yelled something along the lines of “Dammit! We’re almost out of gas. Your father pisses me off!”

Then I remembered I was supposed to be the responsible adult in the car and I told the kids that we needed to stop at the gas station on the way to the grocery store.

To which Ian replied:

Dammit. Daddy pisses us off.

Oops.

Nice job, Mom. Excellent parenting move. Now my husband will come home and Ian will say it again and it will look like we’ve been conspiring against him.

On second thought, did you notice how he changed the sentence from “Daddy pisses me off” to “Daddy pisses us off”? That is good grammar. What do you call it? Pronoun agreement?

I’m not such a bad parent after all. I teach people how to speak English. How about that?

In your face Ferber!

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