A Busy Week for Teeth

At the start of last week, Mira had a loose tooth that had reached that super-wiggly stage but refused to come out. Each day she asked if I’d try to pull it out for her, and I refused, mostly because she winced whenever she wiggled it too much, so I didn’t want to hurt her if it wasn’t ready to come out yet.

Cordy also had a wiggly tooth, only in her case she didn’t want it to come out. This was her silver tooth, and despite all of the trouble that tooth had caused her when she was younger, she loved that it was “shiny” and didn’t want it to go away.

I tried to reason with her. “Cordy, the tooth needs to come out so the adult tooth can come in.”

“Will a shiny silver tooth grow in to replace it?” she asked.

“No, sorry sweetie, teeth don’t grow in silver,” I explained. “Yours has a silver cover on it because it had a weak spot in it when it formed that caused it to crumble. The silver cover made it strong so they didn’t have to pull it and we could wait until the adult tooth was ready to come in.”

That didn’t convince her. She still didn’t want to give it up.

So I should have guessed why Cordy seemed so upset when Aaron picked the girls up from school one day. As they got out of the car, Cordy looked defeated, frown fixed on her face and disappointment in her eyes. “What’s wrong?” I asked Aaron.

Aaron held out his hand and gave me the silver tooth. It had fallen out after school, and Cordy was distraught. Unlike the other baby teeth she had lost, this one was important to her and she was sad it was gone.

Meanwhile, Mira was also sulking, upset that her sister lost a tooth without even trying while she was wiggling away at her tooth that wouldn’t come out.

I tried to cheer Cordy up: “Hey, I’ll bet the tooth fairy probably pays extra for shiny silver teeth like that!”

“Noooooo!” she wailed. “I don’t want her to take it! Please don’t let her take it, mommy!” That didn’t work.

“Ok, ok, we won’t let her take it. How about this: I’ll hide it away until you decide what you want to do with it? Sound good?”

It wasn’t a perfect solution, but it worked for her. So now I have a silver-crowned tooth sitting in my nightstand drawer, and I’m not sure when I’ll be able to safely get rid of it.

A few days later, Mira got off the bus with a big grin and something hanging around her neck. “I lost my tooth!”

The gap in her grin confirmed the missing tooth as she held up the tooth locket for me to see. At school they put lost teeth in a little tooth-shaped container that’s on a necklace, to keep the hallways free of misplaced human teeth.

Missing a tooth

Mira was triumphant, of course. And unlike Cordy, she couldn’t wait to hand her tooth over to the tooth fairy for a reward.

That night, as I tucked her in and made sure her tooth was also tucked in to her tooth-fairy pillow, Mira motioned for me to lean in close. “Mommy,” she whispered, “will you help me wiggle my other teeth to see which will come out next?”

No. Two teeth in a week is plenty for me.



Political Retaliation from the City of Columbus?

It seems all is not done with our local school levy issue.

I mean, the election is over, and the levy failed. No question there. And while I’m still working with a group to develop a community plan to improve our schools, I thought the political part was over. Yes, I was against the district and the City of Columbus over this issue, but the vote has been taken, the people decided, and we’re all back on the same team again, right?

Not so much.

This weekend, Aaron and I received a letter from the City of Columbus, informing us that we’re having our city taxes audited for the previous three years. The letter was dated November 7, two days after the election.

Suspicious, no? (Read on, I’ll explain why I think this might have been in the works before the election.)

Suspicious audit letter

I’m not sure what new information the city offices could now have to trigger an audit of our personal taxes. The audit will likely cost taxpayers far more than anything they could possibly get from us if they determine TurboTax led us astray. We’re not a large corporation – we’re two individuals who didn’t have a lot of income over the past three years as we tried to get back on our feet after layoffs. I’m not a great public figure, either. This regular mom lives a very mundane life, with a very small corner of the internet to write out my opinions.

It’s already highly unusual for an individual to receive an audit notice from the city, so to receive one immediately after the election results, when I was directly involved in an election issue as the opposition of a plan the city and the mayor supported reeks of political retaliation.

I know I was one of the more public figures involved, and likely the one with the fewest political connections. It was hard to not know about me in the school levy issue. It was here that I posted the audio of the mayor’s rants from the PTA meeting. (Note: I didn’t record the audio, but I was the one who agreed to host it.) I spoke on Ann Fisher’s WOSU radio show twice, my name given each time. Also, it’s not hard to find my full name in connection to my blog. It’s really easy, in fact. Just look at my Twitter page.

And thanks to the magic of IP tracking and StatCounter, I know that people from the City of Columbus offices were using their public computers to read through this little blog throughout October, leading up to the election and beyond. Why the sudden interest? They never bothered to pay me a visit until I posted about the PTA meeting. [Edited to add: they’ve read this post today, too. *waves hi*] If they are doing this as retaliation, they’ve possibly been planning it for the last month, waiting to see the election outcome.

I’ve heard through different channels that the teacher’s union is also possibly using retaliation against a teacher who chose to speak out against the levy, attempting to silence that teacher through intimidation. I don’t know all of the details, but if it’s true, it’s deplorable behavior from the very union that is supposed to be working for and looking out for its teachers.

A part of me wanted to believe this was purely coincidental, but the more I think about it, the more I can’t believe that would be the case. An audit notice, issued immediately after the election results, for someone who was a public face of the opposition against the city’s plans for the school district? Sorry, that doesn’t feel coincidental. There’s no profit in auditing a couple who doesn’t own a business or make a lot of money, so we’re unusual targets for an audit to begin with, much less a city audit. No, I think I struck a nerve, and someone feels the need to turn that anger onto my family.

I am concerned that this could be direct political retaliation in an attempt for someone like me, with no political or powerful connections, to be forced into submission through punishment and fear. You dare to challenge the city? Here, we’ll show you who’s really in charge by auditing you to make your life hell.

Here’s the thing, though. Friends and family know that I’m not someone to go quietly into the night when someone tries to silence me. (Bloggers…opinionated loud-mouths.) Instead, I’ll take them on head-on, questioning if my civil rights are being infringed on and directly asking how our city government – my own political party, for goodness sakes! – could possibly have become so corrupt.

Shame on the mayor and this city government if they’re using their positions of power to enact political retribution against me through a tax audit. I didn’t realize citizens weren’t allowed to speak our own minds in Columbus. You haven’t intimidated me at all. Rather, you’ve made me wonder what else is rotten in our city government?

Maybe it’s time for an audit of the City of Columbus? Perhaps we need to root out the corruption and political games that some would choose to use their positions of power to play, and ensure our city leaders are doing their job of serving all of the city, as they were elected to do.



Review of Thor: The Dark World

I love getting the chance to go out to the movies with Aaron. But going to see a geeky comic movie? Before it comes out? And for free? We’ll go through our entire contact list to find a babysitter to make sure we don’t miss that.

Last week we got to see the second Thor movie. We enjoyed it, and spent the next hour after the movie discussing its strengths and weaknesses in detail. I wanted to write a review beyond commenting on how good Chris Hemsworth looks as a Norse god, but then I read Aaron’s review and realized I agreed with most everything he said, so I asked if I could re-post it as a guest post here.

Please enjoy Aaron’s very thorough review of Thor: The Dark World, and my far less thorough commentary throughout in red.

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thor_posterMarvel is now two films into “Phase Two” of their cinematic universe. “Phase One” was unquestionably strong, with good box office takes and even better critical reviews of Iron Man, Thor, Captain America: The First Avenger, and decent results from The Incredible Hulk and Iron Man 2.

And, of course, The Avengers.

The first film in Phase Two, Iron Man 3 was met with mixed reactions. I liked it more than many, but while the film was almost certainly a success, it wasn’t the same kind of instant sensation that the original Iron Man was. Marvel was therefore banking quite a lot behind Thor: The Dark World, and especially in the charisma and good looks of its stars, Chris Hemsworth (Thor) and Tom Hiddleston (Loki).

I was lucky enough to catch a preview screening of the film last Monday. So, how was it?

odin_thorSynopsis

Marvel’s Thor: The Dark World continues the big-screen adventures of Thor, the Mighty Avenger, as he battles to save Earth and all the Nine Realms from a shadowy enemy that predates the universe itself. In the aftermath of Marvel’s Thor and Marvel’s The Avengers, Thor fights to restore order across the cosmos… but an ancient race led by the vengeful Malekith returns to plunge the universe back into darkness. To defeat an enemy that even Odin and Asgard cannot withstand, Thor sets upon his most dangerous and personal journey yet, forced into an alliance with the treacherous Loki to save not only his people and those he loves… but our universe itself.

malekithThe Film

There are some truly wonderful things that are done in Thor: The Dark World. Chris Hemsworth has transformed from the petulant godling we saw at the beginning of Thor into a true hero. He’s self-assured, but not cocky; patient with those around him; and a devoted son and brother. This version of Thor will be familiar to readers of the comic. The other members of the cast are equally skilled, although some characters get more screen time than they deserve, while others are painfully ignored when they shouldn’t be.

A notable performance is, of course, Tom Hiddleston as the Trickster god, Loki. Hiddleston has stolen the screen in every scene he has played as this character for two films now, and that continues in Thor: The Dark World. Loki is magnetic and captivating, whether he is trading barbs with Thor’s companions, acting indifferent while imprisoned in a cell, or truly caught in the grip of emotion. The fortunate news is that we are very unlikely to be finished with seeing Loki after this movie. [Christina’s note: Loki did steal the show. This film should have been named Loki: The Dark World.]

The action moves effortlessly between the otherworldly realms of Asgard and Svartalfheim to our own Midgard (also known as Earth), and Director Alan Taylor’s knowledge of how to film fantasy from Game of Thrones is on fine display here. Action is mixed well with drama, and most of the humor works.

It is also nice that Jane gets more to do this time around, and her scientific knowledge helps tip the scale of the battle at the film’s end. This almost makes up for the fact that Jane spends nearly the entire second act of the film as the McGuffin – the thing that everyone wants – and not really a character. [Christina’s note: That was the primary thing I didn’t like about the movie.]

lokiThe Good

With only a few exceptions, the cast absolutely makes this film. I’ve already praised Hemsworth and Hiddleston, and it should go without saying that Sir Anthony Hopkins is wonderful. Idris Elba gets to flex his muscles a bit more this time around as Heimdall, and although their scenes are all too brief, the Warriors Three and Sif each have several nice character moments where they get to shine.

Portman’s Jane Foster also has some excellent moments, while Stellan Skarsgard gets to show us a brilliant man who has been destroyed mentally by his past encounters with the gods. [Christina’s note: Aaron is perhaps not emphasizing just how mentally destroyed the character is portrayed, to the point that he’s a comedy bit thru the film.] Although painfully underutilized, Christopher Eccleston manages to give us a nice portrayal of Malekith, leader of the Dark Elves, as does Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje as Algrim/Kurse.

What was an amazingly refreshing stroke in the characterization column was Renee Russo as Frigga, queen of the gods and mother to both Thor and Loki. In her we can see why Loki may reject Odin as a father, but never rejects that she is his mother, and she has a truly inspiring scene reminding us of just why Odin picked her to be his bride. Some of the most effective dramatic moments of the movie involve her. [Christina’s note: She really is impressive in this film. And she gets to kick ass at one point, too.]

It’s also worth noting that there are many moments involving Loki that are hilarious. As in, laugh-out-loud funny. Expect to see lots of Loki quotes coming out of this film as memes on Facebook. And the cameos are superb. Stan Lee once again gets to appear, and there is a member of the Avengers crew that gets some additional time to shine – acting very out of character, but in an entirely appropriate way.

jane_diningThe Bad

Underutilization. There is no other way to say it. Thor: The Dark World has enough different plot elements that it means that some of them simply do not get explored. Why do the Dark Elves wish to destroy everything and return to Darkness? Well, because they’re Dark Elves. No other explanation is given. Eccleston is amazing, but he gets so little time to actually show us who Malekith is, and never gets to deliver dialogue in English. [Christina’s note: Well…he gets a few lines in English. But sadly it’s mostly him speaking in what sounds like recorded Russian played backwards.]

Similarly, there is an interesting side-romance to be developed involving Sif, which is given lip-service, but then is dropped almost entirely. There are many moments involving Jane Foster and Sif that could have been explored using this theme, but they’re not there. Maybe they were filmed and left on the cutting-room floor, but it left me wishing that they had simply never even brought up the idea that Thor should be with Sif.

As I mentioned above, The Warriors Three are each played well, and it’s nice to see Zachary Levi as Fandral, but they could almost have been cut from the film for as much as they have to do – and in fact, Hogun departs their company in his first scene.

The pacing of the second act is also really off. The film starts strong, but by the time Loki, Thor and Jane leave Asgard, I found myself severely losing interest, even almost nodding off in the theater. It picked up again at the film’s climax, but it was still a tough half-hour or so to get through. [Christina’s note: to be fair, Aaron falls asleep every night around 9pm, so he was only slightly ahead of schedule on that. But I’ll agree it was slow in the middle. And far too predictable in some areas.]

darkelvesThe Ugly

Darcy. Oh… Darcy. I’ve been a fan of Kat Dennings in the past, and quite enjoyed her in the first Thor. But this time around, I found myself frequently wishing she would just shut up and go away. There was literally nothing she did that couldn’t have been accomplished by Jane alone, and the inclusion of Darcy’s intern was both uninteresting and took time away from the story elements that should have been expanded on. [Christina’s note: no disagreement here. She was annoying.]

jaimie-alexander-sif-thor-dark-world1Final Thoughts

My main thoughts about Thor: The Dark World are that the film is in the realm of “If this had come out in the 90s or early 2000s when we had so many terrible superhero films in a row, this would have been hailed as the Second Coming.” But now that we’ve had some legitimately amazing films? This one was just okay.

It’s not awful by any means. The plot is serviceable, the action is decent, and it’s filmed well. There are some legitimately touching scenes, and most of the humor was fun. [Christina’s note: I’d argue that if you removed Darcy a la Jar-Jar Binks and renamed the film for Loki, you might see serious praise for the film.]

But the pacing is off. The film lacks urgency. The Dark Elves never have any motivating factor other than “They’re dark. They like darkness.” They have a little bit of a revenge plot motivation, but that’s just because the first time they wanted to destroy everything and create darkness, the Asgardians stopped them. [Christina’s note: Totally agree. They have even less motivation than the generic aliens in The Avengers. The only difference is we like Chris Eccleston and wish we had more character development from him.]

Did I regret watching it? Not at all. And I’ll see it again and purchase it on Blu-Ray. [Christina’s note: let’s be honest – even if we hated it, the movie would likely be joining the collection, just for completion’s sake.] But in my opinion, this may be the weakest of the seven films Marvel has put out. [Christina’s note: I disagree on this point. Hulk.] I still enjoyed it more than I have any of DC’s offerings since Watchmen and The Dark Knight, but I’d rather watch the original Thor, Iron Man or Captain America: The First Avenger over this one.

This may spell a sign of trouble for Marvel. Have they lost their mojo entirely, and could the great experiment of the Marvel Cinematic Universe be headed for collapse? It’s probably too soon to tell, although critical response to Iron Man 3 and Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. (which I am enjoying) may lead you to think so. [Christina’s note: maybe this movie just needed Coulson?] We’ll have a better idea after this Spring rolls around, with Captain America: The Winter Soldier and Guardians of the Galaxy to look forward to.



The Power of One Voice

The election is over! Hallelujah!

Tuesday was probably one of the craziest days I’ve lived through in a long time. I woke up already worried about how the school levy issues would work out, but had to put it out of my mind for a couple of hours for an early morning dermatologist appointment. When I made that appointment months ago, I didn’t think Election Day would be that big of a deal.

My dermatologist appointment was for my twice-a-year full-body skin check. Since getting the lovely new scar on my back, I’m on the 2x/yr plan until further notice.

I didn’t expect the appointment to be very exciting, but yet my skin always finds way to surprise me. Two more moles biopsied, one of which I never would have thought would be an issue. So it’s another two week wait for results, and not the fun results that come with two blue lines on a stick.

After getting my band-aids and wound care instructions, I stopped by my polling location to vote before going home. I was the only person in there, and seemed to be disturbing the staff who were taking a snack break. I made my choices, carefully looked over them multiple times, and hit Submit.

Then I worked through the day, pushing out a few “go vote” messages here and there, and otherwise focusing on my job so I wasn’t an anxious mess thinking about the results.

That evening, I joined others in the ItsOKAYtoVoteNO group for an election watch party. I think we were all terribly nervous, completely uncertain how the race could go. We felt we had done our best in trying to get the message out that this school levy plan had serious flaws, and wasn’t the right plan for our children.

But we also had limited funds to expand our message. The pro-levy team had over $2 million, while our group eventually spent a couple hundred dollars or so before it was all done. Media time was not on our side either.

At 8:00pm they released the absentee and early voting results, which immediately put us in the lead. That lead wouldn’t disappear the entire night, and would only grow as the hours stretched on.

Election Watch Party We decided to take a group shot of many of the people involved behind the scenes (still missing 6-8 people in this photo).

When all was counted, the vote showed 69% against the levy. We were hoping to squeak out a win, but instead the voters delivered a powerful message against the levy. David slew Goliath.

Then it was over. The district and the mayor, who from the start told voters not to focus on the school board and instead remember this levy was coming from them and not the board, conceded by pushing the school board president – probably the most disliked person on the board – front and center to speak about the failure of the levy. It was cowardly.

Yes, we were pleased with the outcome.  We succeeded in not having this plan implemented, but even before this vote we realized this wasn’t an end, but only a beginning. Because defeating a levy and a bad plan wasn’t our end goal. Improving our district schools is the goal.

Isn’t it funny the strange paths our lives can take?

Just over a month ago, I was furious with our school district over their transportation failures. I had other issues with the current state of our district, and I wished our schools as a whole were stronger, but didn’t feel that was a topic I could do anything about.

And then a little PTA meeting happened, followed by my blog post about it, and suddenly there was hope that a small group of people – many of whom never knew each other before that meeting – could make a difference. Maybe a few people, motivated by doing the best for our kids, could use our few resources to promote an alternate message that this plan wasn’t the future, but maybe we could build a new ideal for our schools together.

Now, I’m working with some of that group on the next steps to create the positive change we hope to happen in our schools. We’ve got people talking, we have parents and community members engaged and wanting to join in, and we’re seeing that a small group of people with no political power might just get something done for our schools. Something that will benefit all of the kids and hopefully create a new dynamic for how to approach change in our school district.

It’s exciting. And terrifying. And exhausting. But mostly exciting.

The day after the election, I was proud to represent my group as the voice of the opposition on WOSU’s All Sides with Ann Fisher. Public speaking generally isn’t my thing, but radio is a little easier to do than TV, and I think I did fairly well at explaining what happened and where we planned to go from that point. We’re no longer “ItsOKAYtoVoteNO” but now “Parents for Real Education Reform in Columbus City Schools.” (PRERCCS kinda sounds like “prereqs” which was unplanned and kinda cool. Website coming soon.)

It really is just beginning. We succeeded in keeping the plan from being enacted, but now there’s a void that must be filled. So the work continues.

Never did I think that my voice could be so important.



I Don’t Think It Means What You Think It Means

Alright it’s Election Day, and you know what that means. Get out there and vote! No matter where you live in the US, there’s probably something important that you should be voting on today. Your voice is just as important as any other, so make sure it counts.

And if you’re in Columbus, well, you know what I’m going to say next. Please don’t forget to vote today, and vote NO for Issues 50 & 51. Our team put together a great summary of why you should vote no, and as a parent of Columbus students, who has done the research and opted out of sleep and most other free time to make sure I had the most educated view on the issues, I’m certain that voting no is the right choice.

If you’re less swayed by an educated mom, then perhaps conspiracy theory is more your style: why would the pro-levy side have over $2 million campaign dollars provided by corporate funding? What do these companies stand to gain, ’cause you know many of them haven’t given a second thought to our school district before this?

It's OKAY to Vote NO

Now for a little humor.

With all of this going on, I’ve been carefully reading Facebook for mentions of anything city or school politics related. Over the weekend I saw this post from the Gateway Film Center, who hosted a pro-levy event last night:

“GALLERY HOP: Looking for the latest issue of Columbusland, featuring one of our favorite superheros (hint: it’s Mayor Mike Coleman)? We’ll be giving them out tonight at Da Levee during Gallery Hop — we even packed some of the issues with FREE movie tickets.”

Mayor Mike Coleman? A superhero? You mean when he’s not yelling at concerned PTA parents?

But then I looked closely at the image provided with the post:

Superhero or Swindler?That’s no superhero.

What they were calling their image of their “superhero” mayor was more like, as one observant commenter quipped, “Mayor Michael Calrissian.”

Yes, they put the mayor’s head on Lando Calrissian, from Star Wars.

LandoOh, Billy Dee…

I’m shocked that a FILM CENTER could produce such a horrific lapse in geek knowledge. Shouldn’t they know better?

Portraying the mayor as Lando suddenly provided a totally different perspective on the mayor, a perspective that has been growing since that PTA meeting. I couldn’t help but comment:

I’m not sure if you meant that in irony or just don’t know your geek references. That’s not a superhero, that outfit is Lando from Star Wars. You might remember him as a con artist, smuggler, gambler & swindler. And a pretty lousy friend, too. Remember this quote from him? “This deal gets worse all the time.”

And so, Gateway Film Center, I don’t think your image came off with the meaning you were intending.

That said, the image that was portrayed?

Nailed it.

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