Disney’s Frozen Melted Our Hearts

Frozen posterYou may remember a little while ago, I expressed some concerns over Disney’s new movie, Frozen. When we were at Walt Disney World back in February, we got our first glimpse of some of the art from Frozen and immediately were intrigued. The promotions that followed, however, left me feeling disappointed. Too much focus was placed on Olaf, the snowman, and I felt like the entire story was being lost in marketing cheap laughs between Olaf and the reindeer, Sven.

As we got closer to the movie’s release, I continued to be nervous. I’d heard bits of the music, and I knew it was breathtaking. I also recognized the names of several character voice actors and knew their voices would be equally beautiful with the music.

But I wasn’t seeing much of this in the movie trailers, and little of the story was being revealed, too. Would it live up to my hopes? Would it overcome the marketing I’d been so unimpressed with and prove to be a stellar story?

In a word? YES.

Synopsis

There are two Princesses of Arendelle: Elsa (Idina Menzel), the soon-to-be Queen, and Anna (Kristen Bell). Elsa has the ability to create snow and ice, yet has been suppressing these powers after a traumatic childhood incident involving her sister. After letting her cryokinetic powers get out of hand during her official July coronation, she goes into hiding, only for her emotions to trigger a magical, eternal winter that freezes the entire kingdom.

Anna, a fearless and daring optimist, must journey with extreme mountain man Kristoff (Jonathan Groff) and reindeer sidekick Sven in an epic journey, encountering mystical trolls, a comical snowman named Olaf (Josh Gad), Everest-like extremes and magic at every turn in a race to find Elsa (now known as the Snow Queen), save their kingdom from eternal winter, and make things right before it’s too late.

Weaknesses

OlafLet’s start with the things I didn’t like as much about the film, but please read on because the strengths still far outweigh the weaknesses.

So, the first thing to get out of the way is that Frozen bears about as much resemblance to the original Hans Christian Anderson tale of The Snow Queen as The Little Mermaid does to its source tale. So, if you’re a big fan of the classic fairy tale, please put it out of your mind in advance, because otherwise you will be sorely disappointed.

The other thing that absolutely must be touched upon is Olaf. Olaf, the enchanted magical snowman who wants to experience all things warm. Olaf, who has been featured almost exclusively in the previews for the film to the point that you might be surprised to discover that there are two Princesses in the movie. I quickly deemed Olaf to be the Jar Jar Binks of Frozen.

As I had feared, there is entirely too much of Olaf in this movie, which is entirely unnecessary. The film already had “cute creatures” a-plenty in the form of Sven, the reindeer, and the trolls who provide exposition and an additional source of magic and fun to the movie.

Fortunately, even though there is too much Olaf, there is also a lot less of him than I had feared there would be, and he even manages to add some to the plot. Not a lot, but some. I’ll admit that I even laughed at a few of his antics, but overall I wish he wouldn’t have been included.

Frozen also suffers from the lack of a strong villain, a la Urusula, Jafar, the Shadowman or Mother Gothelle. The story is more about struggles within yourself, and the sisters being able to connect to one another, and the external threats aren’t all that terribly significant.

Frozen has a fairly weak romance, too, but to be honest, I was totally OK with this. Disney has a very hit-and-miss record with making the romances of their leads believable and/or necessary, with Tangled and Princess and the Frog nailing it, and Brave showing us that you don’t really need it. The romance in this film is a bit contrived, and ultimately not all that important. What it does do, however, is gives us an excuse to include a couple of male characters in the film that were probably essential to convince young boys to come see it, and it allowed directors Chris Buck (Tarzan) and Jennifer Lee (screenplay, Wreck It-Ralph) to really play with the standard Disney tropes of in True Love’s Kiss in a way that we found really surprising and gratifying.

Now, with the negatives out of the way, let’s discuss some of the things that make Frozen worth watching – and there are plenty.

Strengths

First of all, the visuals of the film are absolutely breathtaking. Although I have heard some complaints that the new CGI-style of Disney animation means that Anna and Elsa bear a little too strong of a resemblance to Rapunzel from Tangled, I was able to look past any initial similarity to the point that the sisters quickly became distinct. Elsa has a cold reserve to her that you can see on her face, and the way she never quite smiles but often smirks captures the facial tics of her voice actress, Idina Menzel quite wonderfully.

Similarly, Anna’s slightly crossed eyes and freckles give her a wonderful humanity that we haven’t always seen in the Disney Princesses. Even the tomboys and outsiders and misfits are beautiful – and there’s no doubt that both Anna and Elsa are – but seeing some imperfections makes them a little bit more real.

Ice palace

Of course, visually, the real star of Frozen are the ice and snow effects, and those are simply amazing. There were real gasps in the audience when Elsa creates her Ice Palace, and the way that the snow swirls, and the ice grows and cracks is just amazing.

As characters, it’s hard not to love both sisters. Anna is outgoing, energetic, clumsy and forthright, while Elsa is cold, reserved and restrained – but still clearly empathetic and compassionate.

Anna’s quest to save her sister, and in turn, the kingdom, resonates strongly because at its core, it is more about Elsa than it is about Arendelle – which makes it a quest that is easier to relate to. Saving a kingdom is more than most kids can understand, but wanting to be with your sister is something that any younger sibling can understand.

Both are strong female characters in their own way, and I have a feeling this movie will result in two new Disney Princesses for the parks and toy stores. (Technically Elsa is a queen, but she belongs in the Princess lineup just as much as Anna.)

The Music

When it comes to Disney features, the music can make or break the movie. Many fans turned away entirely from Hercules because of the unexpected musical choices with the Gospel-style songs (although I am personally a fan), and to this day, I think that if Disney had made the music integrated into Tarzan the way they did the Broadway version, it would have ended up being a much bigger hit.

Well, Frozen is an absolute win in the musical category, and if you’re a fan of Broadway, then you will be very, very pleased.

The orchestral score from Christophe Beck is quite, quite lovely, and pulls you strongly in to the film right from the beginning. But as solid as the score is, the actual songs are where Frozen soars.

“Frozen Heart” starts the film off strong with a solid, sea-chanty-esque rhthym, “Do You Want to Build a Snowman?” establishes the relationship between the sisters and is heart-breakingly sweet and sad at the same time. “Reindeers Are Better Than People” is a cute little ditty featuring Jonathan Groff, and “Fixer Upper” is fun and energetic and will make great background music when walking through the Disney parks.

But there are three songs that everyone will be talking about.

“For the First Time in Forever” (and its reprise) is the adult counter-point to “Do You Want to Build a Snowman?” and is absolutely essential to understanding who both Anna and Elsa are. It has a great build throughout, catchy lyrics, and really fun visuals. Think of it in the same vein as other Disney “I Want” Songs, and you won’t be far off at all.

“Love is an Open Door” is a really lovely love-song duet, and in a different film, could easily be the one that everyone will remember at the movie’s end. The opening and closing of doors is a recurring theme in Frozen, and when the song plays, it is easy to see how Anna can be swept away by her handsome prince.

Incidentally, although we’re past the point where this should be surprising, Kristin Bell has quite a lovely singing voice, and she’s really fun to listen to throughout.

But the breakout hit song of Frozen is, without question, “Let it Go.”

Anyone familiar with Idina Menzel’s career knows this, but that woman has an amazing voice, with a tone very unlike many others. She isn’t always technically perfect, but she is incredibly talented, and the imperfections in her voice are what allow it to bring so much emotion to what she sings. If you only know her from watching Glee, than this may surprise you. If you’re familiar with her from Rent, then you know she has the pipes, but you may not be prepared for her ability to reach in to your heart and twist. If you know Menzel from listening to Wicked, then you know what I’m talking about.

“Let It Go” may be her strongest song yet, even beating out “Defying Gravity” from Wicked. It’s a song that anyone who has ever felt different or felt the need to hide their true self in an attempt to fit in will strongly identify with and feel as if the song was written just for her.

The song is already listed on Disney’s “For Your Consideration” website for Best Original Song, and if there is any justice, it will be nominated, and Idina Menzel will sing it at the Oscars. But just as fortunate, that means that Disney has put the song up on the site for you to listen to. I implore you to do so. Here’s a link.

Summary

Frozen is a must-see film, and I believe it’s worth a trip to the theater to see it on the big screen. I don’t necessarily think the 3D version is needed over the standard version, but the beautiful animation should be seen on a large screen to fully appreciate it.

Sisters of Frozen

Our entire family loved this film. Even Cordy, who usually takes a couple of viewings to warm up to a new movie, left with a big grin on her face, exclaiming that it was a great movie. All four of us couldn’t help but notice some of the parallels between Elsa and Anna and Cordy and Mira.

Anna is the darker haired younger sister who is bubbly in personality, enjoys being social, and always wants to play with her older sister. Mira is so much like this, including her constant attempts to reach out to Cordy and her desire to help her older sister. Mira is already asking when she can have an Anna costume.

Elsa is the blonde older sister, who was born different, feels the need to hide her differences from the world, and generally wants to be alone. Sounds a lot like Cordy, who also was born different, wants to be alone a lot of the time, and struggles with trying to fit in and not let her autism rule her. It was an interesting talk on the drive home, as Cordy internalized the lesson Elsa had learned about accepting herself, differences and all, and not seeing her differences as a curse, but as a gift.

There’s a lot more to the story than I can possibly tell you without giving away the big moments. However, I can tell you it’s possibly one of the better sibling stories ever told, and like Brave, it’s refreshing to see a princess story that isn’t resolved by a male hero saving the day and ending with a wedding. These two sisters are smart, capable women who are stronger together than apart. The music is fantastic, the visuals are beautiful, and I think Frozen really did live up to my hopes for it, even if the marketing was lackluster. I’d encourage everyone to see this film – and trust me, it isn’t all about the goofy snowman.

Disclosure: We had advance screening tickets to this film. All opinions expressed here are my own, as well as a few from Aaron.



Bad Decisions All Around

I know I’m one of those parents that some people dread. I try to be actively involved in nearly everything concerning my children. Because Cordy has never been a “one size fits most” child, I’ve had to become that parent who is usually right there to oversee things and make sure that the situation works for her.

I meet the teachers before the start of school to make sure they’re aware of my kids’ strengths and weaknesses. (And to point out important things like Cordy’s artificial dye restriction.) I like to find out ahead of time if a party will be too loud or too overwhelming, or if we need to bring our own snacks. We pack lunches for school so we know what ingredients our kids are eating. And I’m glad we have doctors who view us as partners and assume I’ve done my research on whatever we discuss, because I have, and I’m not afraid to bring up any concerns.

Yes, I’m a bit of a control freak. I’ll admit it. But many would agree that Cordy has benefited from my (“our” actually – Aaron can be pretty fierce, too) watching out for her interests. Changes we’ve made to her diet and her environment have made it possible for her to be mainstreamed and excel in school, reducing unwanted behaviors and improving focus and concentration.

Occasionally, though, I do something dumb and later regret my decision to let go a little. Last week was one of those moments. Our elementary school was hosting a flu immunization clinic for all the students, run by Columbus Public Health. Forms were sent home to grant permission. Both kids routinely get the flu vaccine, although their pediatrician usually gives it to them. They get flumist, the intranasal vaccine, instead of the flu shot, mostly because the flumist ingredients are all food grade ingredients plus one sulfa antibiotic, as opposed to the flu shot which has some more questionable ingredients (questionable for Cordy’s sensitivities) in it.

Flu shot

Photo credit: Jim Gathany (CDC)

Flumist is the standard vaccine for these school-based vaccine clinics now. Only those who have medical reasons to not receive the live vaccine are given the inactivated vaccine injection. (And it makes sense – as a nurse, would I rather stick a bunch of kids with needles or squirt a little liquid up their nose? I know which I’d prefer.) Our kids weren’t scheduled to see the doctor until later in the season for their checkups, so I looked over the form carefully. Flumist would be given to healthy kids – my kids are amazingly healthy, so I put my trust in the health department and signed the forms.

Well, I should have realized that would go poorly.

When I picked the kids up that day, Mira ran out and immediately told me she was sniffly because of the flumist. Then Cordy came out looking pale and pouting. Her teacher told me that she was given the flu shot instead of flumist, and she was very brave. I asked why, and was told that Cordy told the health department worker that she has autism, so they gave her the flu shot because she has a “chronic medical condition.” Wha?

Her teacher sighed and said Cordy would have received flumist instead if she would have stayed quiet. While I laughed with her teacher over Cordy’s willingness to offer up information, I was also furious with the health department.

I’m primarily angry that Columbus Public Health demonstrated poor clinical decision making. The health history/permission form that I turned in for Cordy was exactly the same as Mira’s health history – no risk factors noted. Based on the health history provided, there was no reason for Cordy to receive a different form of the vaccine. The statement of a nine year old minor does not override the health history filled out by the parent/legal guardian. At the very least, a call should have been made to verify the information, which would have given me the chance to refuse the vaccination for her based on the new information. My phone number was on the form, but I received no call.

Would they have given her a flu shot if I had marked that she was allergic to eggs and she told them she eats them all the time? Any inconsistency in the health record should be checked before choosing route of administration.

Beyond that, I’m astonished that autism is a justification for the inactivated flu shot over the live vaccine flumist. We can argue round and round over autism as neurological disorder or as a facet of neurodiversity, but you can’t consider it a chronic medical condition. Autism doesn’t cause immunosuppression or respiratory weakness. Medically, Cordy is healthier than most kids – she has a strong resistance to most viruses and rarely gets sick. There may be some children with autism who are more medically fragile, but that’s likely due to an additional diagnosis other than just autism spectrum disorder.

So the kid with sensory issues and extreme anxiety was the one who got stuck with a needle. That makes no sense to me. And while I can’t say if it’s connected or not, her behavior did seem off the next few days, and two days after the shot she acted out in a way at school that was absolutely atypical for her and shocked everyone.

I did write a complaint to Columbus Public Health and was met with a dismissive “I do apologize that this was not the experience you expected” response. (Hint: that’s not an apology.) The email then went on to tell me that they follow CDC recommendations and to remind me that I gave permission for them to do what they did, even quoting the part on the form that said “Columbus Public Health staff will decide which vaccine type is best for each child based on the health information you provide and the vaccine available.” Well, yes, I expected them to choose the vaccine based on the health information I provided. That’s precisely the problem – they didn’t do that.

I’m not trying to claim I’m totally in the right in this situation. I screwed up, and I blame myself for not questioning them first. I placed my trust in Columbus Public Health when I shouldn’t have, and I feel terrible that Cordy had to suffer through that shot when she didn’t need to. I should have been at the school when it was done or I should have not signed the form and waited to vaccinate at our pediatrician’s office, where they would give her flumist. (Apparently against the CDC recommendations?) I mistakenly thought they’d call if there were any issues.

But I still believe Columbus Public Health is partially to blame. If a child says something that doesn’t match up with what they expect to see on the health history, they should refuse to do the vaccination or at least call the parent for clarification. It wouldn’t take that long to call and check. If they want to include autism as a “chronic medical condition” they need to be more clear upfront, because I don’t consider it a chronic medical condition, and our pediatrician doesn’t, either.  I also think it’s a problem that they don’t allow parents the ability to specify which vaccine type they want, or which they will not allow.

Lesson learned. Sometimes it’s OK to be that parent.



Attractive Activity Tracking With The Misfit Shine

Thanks to Best Buy for sponsoring this review.

It’s well established that I love gadgets. And gadgets that help me improve my health? Why, of course I’m interested.

I’ve already reviewed two activity trackers, both of which have their advantages and disadvantages. I like both of them, but they each have things I don’t like about them. One is bulky and has to be clipped somewhere. The other is a chunky bracelet that doesn’t have the ability to wirelessly transmit data.

So when I heard about the Misfit Shine, I knew I wanted to try it out. The Shine is described as a more elegant activity tracker, designed to be worn via different accessories to fit any occasion. It is much slimmer than any other tracker, and weighs very little.

Features

Some of the features of the Shine include:

  • Activity Tracking, including: Steps, Swimming, Biking, Tennis, etc.,
  • Sleep
  • Calories
  • Clock
  • Waterproof
  • Extra Accessories (includes Magnet clip): Leather Bands, Sport band, Necklace

How it works

The Misfit Shine is easy to set up. The Shine is powered by a coin cell battery which lasts about four months. (You can purchase additional batteries at many stores.) After inserting the battery, just download the Misfit Shine app for your smartphone or tablet, create an account and set your goals, sync for the first time, and you’re ready to go!

The Shine comes with two accessory pieces for two options to wear it. One is a magnetic clip to let you clip it to your shirt, your pocket, your shoe – anywhere that works best for you. The clip is a strong magnet, so there’s no worry about it falling off, but also don’t let it get too close to anything that could be erased by a magnet. The second accessory is a rubber bracelet to let you wear the Shine watch-style.

This device isn’t just a step counter, it can also track other activities you participate in as well. It’s water resistant, so you can even wear it while swimming. (I haven’t tried that out yet.) There’s also a built-in sleep tracker, so you can see just how well you’re sleeping at night.

App functionality is fairly straight-forward. The Shine syncs by being in close proximity to your mobile device. From the app, you can also see steps taken, calories burned, your sleep data, and set daily goals for yourself.

The Shine itself looks very unassuming. There’s no LED screen or plug-in port to give away that it’s an activity tracker. But if you double-tap the device, tiny white lights appear, letting you know how close you are to completing your daily goal. If you get the full circle of lights, you’ve met your daily goal.

 Shine completed goal

Performance

I tried wearing the Misfit Shine both as a clip-on and bracelet style. Wearing it as a bracelet is easier to do when wearing it 24 hours a day, since I don’t have to remember to un-clip it and re-clip it to clothing.

Checking in during the day to see how many lights were lit up on the device is motivating. Somehow, I like seeing those little bright lights cheering me on more than any other device’s way to update me on my goal status.

I do think the Shine does better when clipped to the body than when worn on the wrist. The extra movement of limbs sometimes registers as extra steps. For example, these two snapshots of the device show an increase in the number of steps over about an hour and a half. Only problem? I was sitting on the couch the entire time.

Misfit Shine accuracy

I tried the same thing with having the Shine clipped to a front pocket of my jeans, and it didn’t have the same issue. So, for now I’d recommend that it needs to stay close to the body center for the best accuracy.

Final thoughts

The Misfit Shine is a gorgeous activity monitor, and those who want to be more proactive about their health but don’t want to wear an obvious device will find this to be the perfect fit. The thin round disc is very elegant, and the accessories really make it versatile. I didn’t have the necklace accessory, but I’m considering getting it.

Misfit ShineThe app to go with the Shine is simple, effective, and easy to use. The ability to track activities other than running/walking is useful, and the sleep tracker can tell you how much deep sleep you’re getting each night. I also like that the battery has a four month life instead of requiring frequent recharging.

If you want an easy way to monitor your activity and empower yourself to set goals to improve your health, take a peek at the Misfit Shine.

Shine is exclusively available in additional colors at Best Buy including Silver, Black, Champagne and Topaz. It’s retail price is $99.99.

Disclosure: The reviewer has been compensated in the form of a Best Buy Gift Card and/or received the product/service at a reduced price or for free.



Eight Years and You’re Still Reading!

Way back in November 2005, I was a mom to one 14 month old girl. Due to work issues, I had switched to a part-time job just so our daughter wasn’t spending her entire time in daycare while we worked. I didn’t have a lot of friends with children, and most of the ones who did lived out of town.

Cordy & momIt was because of this that I found support and community in online groups and blogs, nearly from the day she was born. My virtual moms groups helped me get through the early days of parenting without a breakdown. It was through reading the stories that others shared online that I learned important things like Hey, my kid drools like a fountain, too, it’s normal! and Colic gets to the best of us. I’ve felt like abandoning my baby in a cornfield, too. It’s fine as long as we don’t act on it.

The online moms (and a few dads) that I visited each week shared their stories with the world, and I was one of the new parents benefiting from their experience and their willingness to be candid and open in sharing their lives. They were my lifeline.

I was already documenting my life as a new mom online, only not in such a public way. I had a LiveJournal account, that I had opened years before 2005, and used it to write the everyday moments I was experiencing as a mom. But most of our friends weren’t parents, so there wasn’t much advice to be had in that small corner of the internet.

So on this day, eight years ago, I took a deep breath and started my own blog. I had to try a few different blog names before I found one that wasn’t already taken.

an old, old headerOne of the earlier headers for my site, when Cordy was still the solo leading lady.

I made the decision to share my story for all. Of course, I figured “all” would be primarily my friends and family, and perhaps a few of the mom friends I had made online. Never did I guess that so many people would come to visit this site just to read about our life! But they have, and I truly appreciate those who stop by and take an interest in my story. Some of it is to help others know that they’re not alone in whatever funny, sad, heartwarming, difficult moments they’re going through, some of it is purely for discussion with the community or getting advice from others, some of it is sponsored to help with the costs of keeping the lights on (but always on topics I’m genuinely interested in).

And some of it is purely for me.  My space to let my thoughts be free on whatever topic is affecting me at that moment, or a way to remember certain milestones or events with Cordy and Mira. The topics have changed as they’ve grown older, and will likely continue to change and morph as we all grow and develop new interests. That’s the fun part of growing – you never stay the same, and growing doesn’t stop when you reach adulthood. In that same sense, this blog is alive and growing along with us, testing out new adventures and trying new things. It’s exciting.

Eight years ago, I could build a website in HTML, but my skills in blog design and coding were lousy. I’ve improved so much since then and even made my own transition from Blogger to WordPress without help, now helping others with basic code issues and changes. In those eight years, I also had a second child, got an autism diagnosis for my first child, picked up a degree and license in nursing, adopted a dog, went back into working in a technical field, where I first started, and celebrated ten years of marriage. It hasn’t been the most easy path, but it’s my path and, like many folks who have had a hard few years, I’ll continue doing the best I can to learn and grow from it.

I’m not sure if I’ll keep the name A Mommy Story forever, since I’m starting to outgrow the label of “mommy” with my own kids, but it’ll continue to be with me for the time being. Or at least until I can decide which name to switch to from the dozen or so domain names I have saved up. I may have a hoarding problem.

But what I appreciate the most about this blog is the community of friends and colleagues I’ve gained as a result. It’s not just a few virtual mom friends. I’ve met many of you in person now, chatted with others in long email threads and text chat, and still keep widening my circle of smart, talented people I’m proud to know. (And for some of you, work with!) I’m not a famous blogger with hundreds of thousands of pageviews each day (more like low hundreds only on an average day), but the people I’ve met as a result of this little blog are worth far more to me than fame.

Today’s my eight year anniversary of starting this blog, and I’d like to just say thank you for reading my often long, ADD-disorganized, not-always-eloquent thoughts. That anyone comes back repeatedly to read what I write (aside from Aaron, who I’m pretty sure is required to under the terms of our marriage vows) is a gift to me. I hope I’ll continue to write things you want to read, and that you’ll grow along with me.

Toast



Green Mountain’s Iced Latte Gives Coffeeshops Serious Competition

Disclosure: This is a sponsored post for Green Mountain Coffee®.

Are you a coffee drinker? I wasn’t at first. In college, I watched many other students come to class with their morning coffee fixed tightly in their hands, as necessary for class as their textbooks and pens. I was primarily a soda drinker, and occasionally tea for when I wanted my caffeine hot.

It wasn’t until after I became a nurse that I understood the power of coffee. Coffee and soda both have caffeine, but coffee has a richness to it, a savory flavor and aroma, and I swear the caffeine from coffee works better than anything else to wake up a tired brain. Drinking something thin, sweet and carbonated did little to help me get through night shifts, but coffee could keep me going. (I mistakenly went back to soda when I took an overnight phone nurse job. I should have stuck with coffee.)

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