"Early" Intervention

It’s been six months now since we took Mira to a Help Me Grow screening for her speech issues. At that point, they ordered a full evaluation, which was done in December. While thankfully Mira shows no signs of autism, she was diagnosed with a speech delay, and recommended for speech therapy right away.

We had a few choices for therapy, including taking her to center for speech therapy, having someone come to the house for therapy, or enrolling her in the early intervention school. Our case worker advised us that the first option was likely to take the least amount of time, with the average waiting period being six to eight weeks. Wanting to get Mira started as soon as possible, we chose the first option.

Fast forward to April.

We still haven’t received a call about a spot for her in therapy. Well, that’s not quite true – we did receive a message in February about a spot, but when we called back they told us there was no spot and seemed puzzled as to why we thought there was a spot for her. Hmmm…

Mid-April, our case worker checked in, and we told her we were still waiting. She made some calls, and soon we had a spot for the end of the month. We took the appointment without argument – the good thing about being unemployed at the moment is we can rearrange our schedules if needed.

Aaron took Mira to the appointment that day, and later in the evening told me about how it went. The therapist evaluated her to figure out a starting point, gave Aaron some exercises to do at home, and sent them on their way. No follow up appointment, because they had none available. Turns out, they fit her into a single empty space, with no chance at further appointments in the near future. The therapist also seemed unconcerned with Mira’s speech.

The exercises we were given are things we already do. We name any item we give to her, we encourage her to repeat words back to us, and of course we talk to her. (Seriously, “talk to her more” was one of the handwritten helpful hints. Like we’re locking her in a closet all day by herself.)

I make the poor kid talk to me all day. I try over-enunciating words, exaggerating my face to show her how to make sounds. She has to try to say a word before I’ll give her the object. And all that comes out of her mouth are vowel sounds and the occasional n sound.

(She showed me she could count for the first time today, too. As she handed me cups, she solemnly pronounced “oooon, ooooo, eeee, ooouh, iiiiieh.” Good thing I’m learning to speak Mira-ese, or in her language, Iiiaaah-eee.)

I understand the system is likely overworked and understaffed. But I feel like Mira is falling through the cracks. When Cordy went to her early intervention screenings, she was immediately transferred to the school system because she was almost three. And the school system has done an excellent job. At her recent evaluation, I was praised for getting Cordy help at an early age, and told it was evident how well she’s responding to therapy.

Mira will be two soon – she has another year to go before the school system could pick up her case. Six months is already a long time to go with no progress – another year could now go down the drain. Mira is supposed to get speech therapy three days a month. We’ve been told May is completely full, and June isn’t looking good, either.

I know I’m showing my neurotic, overprotective mama bear side of me. Her pediatrician said that the medical community doesn’t even care about speech delays until a child is four. But knowing that the sooner you intervene, the better the result, I’d rather be proactive. I’d rather not risk her hitting three or four years old and hearing a doctor or speech therapist say, “Oh, she really has a speech problem – why didn’t you get her help earlier?” Because then they would have to listen to the primal scream I would let loose in response to keep my head from exploding. And no one wants that.

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Comments

  1. can’t you have someone come to your house for therapy? Or will that take longer? I have some friends who had speech therapists (state funded) come to their house and they worked wonders. And god knows if California can make that happen I would think Ohio could.
    I would be feeling the same way as you, and I would really want Mira to see someone at least once a week until she made some progress. How frustrating!

  2. I know that before my brother got his son in the Early Intervention program at school a therapist from Catholic Charities came out to their house once a week. Their social worker recommended it. I don’t know if that is an option for you or not.

  3. oh, it’s just too, too frustrating. It should work better. Parenting is hard in itself, but we can make it better.

  4. SO FRUSTRATING!

  5. Jaelithe says

    That is seriously annoying. I’m sorry they’re making you wait so long. I wish more people in charge of funding for programs like this understood that the earlier you intervene, the less you NEED to intervene — i.e., it costs less money long-term to help kids with developmental delays as early as possible.

    If I were you I think I would just buy a textbook on speech therapy and read it while you’re waiting. Seriously. You’re a nurse, right? You already understand anatomy and technical medical terms. I bet you could figure out the basics of speech therapy and try a few things out until you can get time with a real expert.

  6. You can have them put you on the list for home visits now and still try for private therapy, though we’re learning that there are huge waitlists for that too. The only reason Gabe is already getting home visits here is because he was getting services before we moved.

    Gabe’s ped isn’t worried about his speech at all either,but he’s in the lots of vowels camp too

  7. Anonymous says
  8. Hi, just found your site and I plan to come back for Haiku Friday . . . I have an Early Intervention situation gpoing on right now myself, and I think you are right to fight your way in as much as you can to get the earliest services. I have a stepson who never got the speech therapy he needed after having fluid on his ears for too long, but he attends a charter school that doesn’t do special ed. stuff, so it has never been addressed. Speech is just not something you can fix on your own. My EI team here in Utah has done much better than yours for physical and occupational therapy, but I am still paying out of pocket for private PT services because I don’t want to lose any ground on getting my girl rolling over and then ready to walk. If you consider how important it is to you as an adult to get things right so you get praised, consider how it feels to be little and not get that. You are totally doing the right thing, and I hope it gets better.