Thanks to gas prices and a three year old who had spent the week suffering behavior regressions and tantrums, we found ourselves without plans for the entire weekend. Realizing this was a rare opportunity, Aaron and I both (mostly) avoided our computers and spent the entire weekend focused on the girls.
It was relaxing. And fun. And sorely needed. I think Cordy’s behavior last week was a combination of eating something that she had a reaction to, and having her schedule thrown off because Aaron is busy directing a play and hasn’t been home for bedtime most evenings. Whatever the reason, she had a short fuse and while I shouldn’t need to clarify that I love my daughter, I didn’t want to be around her much last week. Everyone was tired, frustrated, and in need of a lot of attention.
So Saturday, Aaron decided to make up for the missed bedtimes by having a daddy-Cordy day. After lunch, they went to a playground for awhile, and then he took her out for ice cream. Just the two of them – no attention-seeking little sister to get in the way.
When they came home, Cordy wanted to play in the backyard, so we gladly took the suggestion, and spent the remainder of the day digging in the sand table, kicking a soccer ball around, and having fun as a family.
Sunday was spent indoors, and not only did we have more family time, we also managed to get some cleaning done. You know I hate cleaning, and I’ll tell you that Aaron might just hate it even more than me. Cordy and Mira also think of toys strewn over the floor as an interior decorating choice, rarely helping to put them away. As a result, you can clearly see the clutter in many of our pictures, doing the equivalent of the drunk guy in the background of a news report waving and making faces.
But now? Did you know we have a floor under all of that clutter?
Amazing, isn’t it? A lot of toys were culled from the herd, and the large plastic monstrosities (Jumperoo, etc.) were shipped off to a resale shop, never to be seen in our living room again. We did far more cleaning after that picture, too. We’re not exactly ready for a real-estate showing or anything like that, but it looks good.
After the girls were in bed last night, we found our way back to our internet lives and our multiple jobs. Aaron and I looked at our clean floor, reflecting on the generally positive weekend, and made a vow that we need to do this more often.
Glad you guys had a generally relaxing weekend. I always love when we have a chance to relax and re-group…
My grandmother calls this “plain vanilla time” a phrase which I think perfectly sums up those much-needed weekends (and weekdays) at home just being a family.
Glad you got some much needed family time and WOOHOO for getting some cleaning done!
My son sees it as his personal mission to keep our home a disaster. I f I get the kitchen tidy, he’s destroying the family room or his bedroom. Oh, life with a mobile child around…
I am beginning to love weekends like that. I am usually pushing everybody out the door for an adventure by 9am on Saturday morning, but when we do just chill at home, I’m amazed at how much fun we have, and how much actually gets done.
See, you just need a smaller house. The smaller it is, the more often you hae to pick up.
Of course, that says nothing of how often you actually clean.